RESERVE DEATH FOR GOMERS

A year ago, to commerorate my late brother Alan's April 28th birthday, I wrote a post blasting our war in Iraq and mourning the tragic death of so many young people, sent to war by their elders when alternative actions were possible. I am still outraged by this war.

Today we heard from a friend about a young Illinois woman who died in childbirth. I don't know any of the details, but it reinforced my opinion that death should be reserved for us gomers.

We think little about death when we are young, but maturity brings the realization that it is the ultimate price we all must pay for the miracle of life. And such a miracle it is! The odds against any one of us being born are certainly far beyond the odds against winning the big one in a lottery.

For those like me, fortunate enough  to be deep into my ninth decade, death is the inevitable end of a full life, and it is not far away. In death I will be joining many who have been dear to me, including my brother, even though communication may be difficult. And I will be with unknown ancestors without whom my life would not have occured. It will be natural that I move on and make room for others. My death will be no tragedy. Save the tears for those who die young.

Do I oppose living in a world where death prevails? Yes and no. I strongly oppose death for young people, but, it is part of the deal for us gomers and it is worth it.

Virginia Tech was a horrible disaster. The war in Iraq is far worse because it was preventable given wiser leaders.

My life is full of love. It has included a war, but much more peace and fulfillment. Plenty of tears, but much more laughter. Wonderful  friends, many now gone. The dearest wife since 1942, with whom I am still in love, and unmatched offspring.

Reserve death for us gomers. Our afterlife will be in the memory of the dear ones we leave behind.

Comments

[Darlene]

I couldn't have said it better myself. I'm not so sure about what the after life brings, but my husband who had a "near death experience" always referred to it as a great adventure. I'll go with that.

[anonymous]

Beautiful!
Stick around awhile longer if you continue writing things like this.